HOW TO MAKE YOUR CONVERSATIONS BETTER……???
LAST TIME WHEN I WAS ON THE WAY TO THE MARKET I MET A GUY….WE HAD A SMALL TALK…BUT I WAS JUST GETTING BORED WITH HIS WORDS……
WITH THIS MY BRAIN WAS CRACKED….BUT I COULD LEARN FEW THINGS FROM THIS, THAT…I CAN GIVE YOU SOME TIPPY TIPS…..
FIRST OF ALL I THINK …WE SHOULD KNOW THAT WHAT KIND OF A PERSON ARE WE TALKING TO AND WHAT ARE HIS FAVOURITE TOPICS….AND MOVE ON TO HIS FAVOURITE TOPICS…..WE SHOULD KNOW WHAT THE OTHER PERSON WANT TO HEAR FROM US …..IF HE IS INTRESTED IN SPORTS THEN… TALK ABOUT HIS FAVOURITE TOPIC FOR A WHILE….AND SLOWLY YOU CAN TURNOVER THE CONVERSATION ….
AND WHEN WE TALK FOR A LONG TIME JUST LIKE BLA BLA..…BLA…WE FEEL TIRED AND BORED…..TO AVOID THAT JUST ADD A TEASPOON OF HUMOR TO THAT CONVERSATION.……EVENTHOUGH IF YOU ARENT THAT FUNNY GUY…TRY SOME SPICES…OTHERWISE THE LISTENER WILL BE LISTENING MECHANICALLY…..
THERE IS A SAYING THAT “WAITING TO SPEAK IS NOT LISTENING”
FOLLOWING THAT ALSO MAKES YOUR CONVERSATION TASTIER…..DONT JUST RUSH WITH WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY, GIVE THE OTHER PERSON TIME TO SPEAK…..
AND GIVING SOME INFORMATION THROUGH THAT TALK MAKES A FEELING IN THE PERSON THAT HE HAD GAINED SOMETHING THROUGH HIS TALK ……
AND THAT’S WHAT WE WANT……JUST TO TAKE THE LISTENER TO OUR TRACK WITHOUT MAKING HIM FEEL BORED….

good post, mate…
“WAITING TO SPEAK IS NOT LISTENING”… i like this…
thnx…